Wedding by Design
Your Ceremony Your Way
Reverend Leslie Sann
Whether you want a traditional or a contemporary ceremony, I can contribute to the blessing of your day. Your wedding ceremony will be unique, personalized and to your complete satisfaction.
Your simple yet elegant custom marriage ceremony may be performed at a location of your choice. I will perform your wedding ceremony at your home, cottage, garden, hall, museum, park, restaurant, hotel, reception hall, church, or any other location which may be meaningful to you.
You may personalize the ceremony to reflect your own style, values, and spirituality.
I enjoy getting to know each couple and welcome email or phone exchanges while the ceremony is being written. Our exchanges help me tune into what matters to you to best represent you when I write the ceremony.
We communicate until you are happy with the results because the ceremony is just how you want it. I am here to be a positive support for you to have the best experience possible as I perform the ceremony. As we have been in a relationship for months before the ceremony, you will find I am a calming influence when we meet at the altar. The experience is quite intimate and sacred.
I am confident your wedding ceremony will be something that you will remember and treasure. My focus is to support you and your guests to experience your day — your way.
I want to thank you for our most beautiful wedding ceremony. We couldn’t have been happier. We received many, many compliments about how beautiful the ceremony. Thank you so much for everything that you did to help make our day so very special. I am truly blessed in so many ways.
The ceremony was perfect and touched us deeply. We will always remember the ceremony as something truly beautiful and special…we are thrilled we had the privilege of having you officiate! Thanks again.
Reverend Leslie Sann Will Help You to:
- Design a ceremony that is simple, elegant and personalized, and unique to you.
- Ensure that your ceremony reflects the personal values and spirituality you both share.
- Create a meaningful ceremony expressing your mutual love, loyalty, commitment and respect.
On Your Wedding Day…
- You will have an experienced, professional officiant who is focused on you
- I will provide warmth and presence and put friends and family at ease.
- Your ceremony will be conducted with sincerity, dignity, and appropriate lightheartedness.
Answers to Your Questions
Listed below are the most frequently asked wedding questions. You are welcome to contact me.
Who is Reverend Leslie Sann?
I am an ordained minister, inclusive of all denominations and conduct spiritual or non-religious ceremonies. I have been ordained since 1987. I am honored to perform marriage, commitment, and recommitment ceremonies. I work to serve your desired expression and creative intent.
How long does the ceremony take?
I suggest planning on thirty minutes. This includes the entrance, the ceremony, the recessional, etc.
Do we have to memorize our vows?
You can write your vows but come wedding day; I can ‘feed them to you one word at a time.’
Can we write our vows and have friends read, sing, etc.?
YES! The wedding is designed for you and with you. I give you resources so you can collaborate with me in writing the exact ceremony that speaks your heart.
Can our children take part in the ceremony?
YES! It’s a great idea to include your children. Ask me for a list of ideas to do just that!
Can photos be taken?
Whatever you want. It is your wedding.
Is a rehearsal necessary?
Tradition, moms, and bridal books say to have one. Walking through the ceremony with your wedding party is a good idea. These days the wedding coordinator at the site is the one who manages the ceremony proceedings. It is rare that I am asked to attend a rehearsal. There is an additional fee for a rehearsal, and the cost depends on how much time is involved.
What do you wear to the ceremony?
Appropriate attire that matches the occasion. If it’s a black tie event, I dress up.
Does the officiant stay for dinner etc?
I usually do not. I often have other plans and leave once the license is signed.
What time do you arrive on our wedding day?
I arrive a minimum of 15 minutes before the ceremony. I will find both of you so you know I am there.
Is a gratuity expected?
No. Some couples are moved to do so. Some couples send a thank you card with a picture. Referring a friend is a service to me. Some couples do all or none of the above. It’s up to you. I do appreciate receiving photos. I love seeing my couple again and remembering the ceremony we shared.
Do we get to meet you?
Yes. I would like that. When we meet, I can get a sense of you as a couple to personalize the ceremony. With video conferencing, it is very easy to meet.
How do we collaborate on the wedding ceremony design?
When you hire me for your wedding, you contract for my services. Once the business part is in place, I give you the wedding ceremony book I have developed to support you in designing your ceremony. I ask you to review it and give me a sense of direction about your preferences regarding your ceremony. We then collaborate on creating exactly what you want. This is usually done via email.
How do we book you to conduct our wedding ceremony?
Contact me either via e-mail or by phone. We will set up a time to meet. firstname.lastname@example.org or 312.409.0686.
How long before the wedding should we book a wedding officiant?
I suggest you book as soon as you have your reception venue reserved. Please call and check my availability. Availability and fee depend on time of ceremony, place, date and how much travel is involved.
Where and when do I get my license?
For information on obtaining a license, visit: Marriage License Information for the eight counties in the greater Chicago area: Cook, DuPage, Kane, Kendall, Lake, McHenry, Will, and DeKalb.
It was wonderful to work with Leslie throughout our wedding ceremony planning process. Her warmth and positive energy were an asset that we greatly benefited from! She was extremely responsive with her editing and feedback on any questions or ideas we had for our ceremony. The day of our wedding she kept us calm and was very personable while being professional. Thank you, Leslie! We greatly valued her contribution to making our wedding special to us and our guests!
Thank you again for all of your help. We have been continually impressed by how attentive and responsive you are. We have loved seeing the ceremony come together and are so happy with the results.
Thank you so much for being a very important part of our special day. It was a pleasure working with you. I greatly appreciate how kind and flexible you were. We were very happy with how intimate the cermemony was. It was perfect.